Sometimes relationships can seem like a lot of work. A healthy
relationship is absolutely within your reach if you and your partner are
willing to do a bit of work. Here’s how to start nurturing your bond!
1) Take responsibility of your own happiness: save yourself several hours
of arguing by remembering the one rule”it is not up to anyone to make
you happy.
2) Show your affection in whatever way you can: there’s a difference
between knowing that you are loves and feeling that you are loved. Sometimes,we
bank on the fact that our partners should know that we love them even when we
don’t show it.
3) Admit your mistakes: if you know you’ve hurt your partners
intentionally or not, own up to it. Humble yourself and apologise sincerely,without
making excuses or justifications.
4) Give your partner space: Everyone needs their own privacy and some
freedom, so don’t constantly watch everything he/she does. We all hate being
watched, stifled and controlled. Do not spy on him/her reading his/her phone
stalking or following around..if he/she is cheating on you, you will find out.
These things cannot be kept secret for very long.
5) Never be pathetic and needy just to make him/her pay attention to you
or give you sympathy.
6) Never cheat, if you are in a long term relationship with
someone you love, its never worth it and these things will always
resurface.
7) Listen to your partner: sometimes, all your partners want is for you
to lend an ear and be sympathetic about their problems. Being a good listener
is all about paying attention to what they are saying and not blowing it off.
8) Always remind your partner how much he/she means to you.Women are not
the only ones who need expressions of love and care, men need it too.
9) Encourage your partner: so he/she can be more successful at
work. It will make your partner realise how much you care about his/her future.
It will make his/her feelings grow even stronger.
Lastly, never be anything other than yourself around them,if they don’t
show them all of you,they can love all of you!!
Thank me later!!
Thank me later!!
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